Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) may be the best misophonia treatment. Why? Well regardless of your triggers, it helps you stay calm after a trigger. PMR is a skill that takes 14 sessions to learn. This first video will teach you what you need to now about Progressive Muscle Relaxation.
This first video will teach you what you need to now about Progressive Muscle Relaxation.
Here is part of an interview where Virginia talks about her experience with PMR.
At first, you should practice PMR 2 times a day. Use one of these guided audio files for at least 2-4 times. Then you can use the short version. You need to do PMR EVERY DAY!!! You want your misophonia to get better, then you need to do your daily homework.
Guided Audios for Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Most thorough guided audio: PMR by Dartmouth College (24:50)
PMR by Arizona State University (15:23)
Expert Version (timed audio), after you have learned PMR, by Tom Dozier (12:38)
Short Expert Version (minimum talking, minimum times), after you are have learned PMR, by Tom Dozier (9:46)
This audio is timing only. 3-chimes for breathing, short high-pitch chime to tighten, short chime to relax. 30 seconds for breathing at start, 10 seconds to tighten each muscle group, 20 seconds to relax. (10:35)
This audio is timing only. 3-chimes for breathing, short high-pitch chime to tighten, short chime to relax. 30 seconds for breathing at start, 7 seconds to tighten each muscle group, 15 seconds to relax. (8:10)
Here are some scripts for Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Here is an edited transcript of the video
Video Transcript: Misophonia Treatment with Progressive Muscle Relaxation
PMR2 [NOTE: PMR2 means slide 2 of the PowerPoint for this video. The PowerPoint file is not available to you at this time.]
Hello, I’m Tom Dozier and this video is Misophonia treatment with PMR. PMR stands for Progressive Muscle Relaxation, and it was developed in the early 1920s by an American physician named Edmund Jacobson to help patients with stress and anxiety. In the UK, it is known as Differential Muscle Relaxation. There’s the phrase, “I feel very tense.” The work “tense” relates to the muscle tension, and we do have muscle tension when we feel tense. Originally PMR was a series of tightening and relaxing 200 different muscle groups in the body. But since that time we found that we get the same benefit by working only 15 to 20 muscle groups. PMR is just one way of obtaining a state of deep relaxation. I want to give credit to the source of this information, it’s from The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund Bourne.
If we look at what it means to have a physiological state of deep relaxation versus stress or panic, this is what you will find physically or physiologically. You will have a decrease in your heart rate, in your respiration rate, in your breathing, your blood pressure, tension in your skeletal muscles, your metabolic rate or your oxygen consumption, and you will actually have a reduction in your analytical thinking. This is not a thinking state.
There are a number of benefits from daily deep relaxation, and you get these benefits regardless of how you do the deep relaxation. Here are some of the benefits that you will get with daily progressive muscle relaxation. You get reduced generalized anxiety. It prevents the accumulation of stress. You get increased energy and productivity. You get improved concentration and memory. It reduces your fatigue and insomnia – you sleep better. It reduces psychosomatic disorders such as high blood pressure, migraines, headaches, asthma, and ulcers. And you have increased self-confidence, reduced self-blame, and increased awareness of your feelings. And the reason you have an increased awareness of your feelings is that we take our feelings from our body in a number of ways. And if your muscles are always tense then you’re losing some of the input for feelings such as feeling calm, relaxed, happy, or tense which have different states of muscle tension. So you have increased awareness of your feeling. These benefits occur from any type of daily deep relaxation.
Specifically for Progressive Muscle Relaxation and Misophonia, which is why you’re listening to this, is that with Progressive Muscle Relaxation you’re going to have an improvement in your overall sense of well-being. And anytime you have an increased level of wellness it will reduce your Misophonia symptoms. But that’s just one benefit for misophonia. That’s not the primary reason for using Progressive Muscle Relaxation. The other benefit that you get from Progressive Muscle Relaxation specifically is it gives you the ability to relax your muscles on demand. We find that anger has a physiological component to it of tense muscles. And so if I’m angry (mentally), but my muscles are relaxed, it plays a trick on your brain. Those are inconsistent events. Tight muscles go with anger; relaxed muscles go with calm. So by just willfully relaxing your muscles after a trigger, you can drastically reduce the anger that comes from a misophonia trigger.
The other thing that you find is that you can relax your muscles before a trigger. If you know you’re in a situation where you’re going to be triggered, you can relax your muscles before the trigger and that will actually make the trigger less powerful. It will reduce your physical reflex to the trigger. If your initial physical reflex, (which I talked about that in another video) is a skeletal muscle contraction, then relaxing before the trigger will make that physical trigger reflex less severe. It will actually help change your little lizard brain and progressively reduce your Misophonic symptoms – your trigger response. Also, if you want to use the Trigger Tamer, you will have much faster results if you can relax your muscles during the trigger taming process. That will speed up the process of repatterning (rewiring) your lizard brain.
Here are some guidelines for Progressive Muscle Relaxation. First it’s best to do it twice a day if you can morning and night, especially for the first week to 10 days. Once a day is sufficient, but it will take longer for you to get see the benefit of PMR. You need a quiet location with no distractions and 20 to 30 minutes to do Progressive Muscle Relaxation. To start it’s going to take at least 20 minutes. Once you are proficient, you can complete the exercise in 10 minutes. It is best if you do it at a regular time, and on an empty stomach. You need to find a comfortable body position using a sofa, a bed, a recliner, or lay on the floor. You don’t want any tight clothing so loosen any tight clothing. This is a time that you do not want to worry or think about anything else. You really want to have a more passive, detached attitude of just being there and letting it happen. You have to do the work, but you be unemotionally involved. You want to be more of an observer than concerned or thoughtful about the exercise. Observing the way your muscles feel is an important part of PMR.
To do a PMR session, you simply follow a guided audio. You start with a few deep breaths. Then you tense a muscle group for 7 to 10 seconds. You hold it tight. You don’t want to strain, but you want to hold it really tight. You concentrate on the muscle. You feel and visualize the tension. Then you abruptly relax that muscle. You keep it relax it for 15 to 20 seconds, and you feel the limpness. You feel the lack of tension. You note the difference between tense and relaxed. And then you repeat that for each muscle group in your body that you’re going to use for this exercise.
(PMR8 and PMR9 not included in video)
Remember there are many general benefits from Progressive Muscle Relaxation, but Progressive Muscle Relaxation is a powerful treatment for Misophonia, and that’s why you’re going to be doing it. The main benefit for Misophonia is that it lets you relax your muscles on demand. You can only do this after you have developed the skill of relaxing your muscles. It takes 14 days to learn the skill of relaxing your muscles, and even then, you will get better with practice. Instead of PMR (Progressive Muscle Relaxation), maybe you should think of it as MRP (Muscle Relaxation Practice). That is what you are doing each day, PRACTICING relaxing your muscles. You are making the neuron connections in the brain so that when you say relax you can you can relax actually relax your muscles. The ability to do this doesn’t happen, it’s a skill. It is not a concept. So you have to plan on doing MRP for 14 times at least to make sure that you have started to develop the actual skill. Then when you’re triggered you want to just relax.
Remember it also improves your overall general well-being, and that reduces the impact and the severity of your Misophonia. Another great benefit is that once you’ve learned this technique, you can also use it when you know you’re going to be triggered. This is especially beneficial of you have an initial physical Misophonia reflex that is a skeletal muscle. If you relax those muscles before being triggered, then it will help to change your little lizard brain and reduce your misophonia. There is at least one case of a person who eliminated his misophonia this way.
Here is your homework assignment. Go to misophoniatreatment.com and look up the Progressive Muscle Relaxation guided audios. There’s one there that is 25 minutes long. It’s from Dartmouth University, and I suggest that you start that one at least one time. There is another one by Arizona State University that is 15 minutes long, and you should try that at least once. Use one of these guided audios for the first week, because they emphasize the mental thoughts of focusing on the tightness, focusing on the relaxation that is critical to develop the neuron connections so you can relax your muscles on demand. If you are triggered by the voice on the audio, you can use the script for PMR that is on the same web page and one of the bottom audio files. These only have timing chimes – no words. If you want to use one of the shorter audio files once you know what you are doing, go ahead. Practice muscle relaxation twice a day if you really want to see the improvement quickly.
Thank you for watching this video on Misophonia Treatment with PMR, Progressive Muscle Relaxation. I hope you’ve found it useful, but you will really not know how useful it is until you go try it and do it for 14 days. If you would support us in the Misophonia Treatment Institute we would greatly appreciate it. We will use those moneys for education, Misophonia awareness, research and development of treatment. So thank you very much.